影响升职的一些隐形杀手
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-bidi-font-family:'Times New Roman';font-size:10.5000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="margin-right:0.0000pt;margin-left:0.0000pt;mso-para-margin-right:0.0000gd;mso-para-margin-left:0.0000gd;text-indent:0.0000pt;mso-char-indent-count:0.0000;text-autospace:ideograph-numeric;mso-pagination:none;text-align:center;line-height:30.0000pt;mso-line-height-rule:exactly;"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:宋体;font-size:22.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><b>影响升职的一些隐形杀手</b></span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:宋体;font-size:22.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="justify" style="margin-right:0.0000pt;margin-left:0.0000pt;mso-para-margin-right:0.0000gd;mso-para-margin-left:0.0000gd;text-indent:32.0000pt;mso-char-indent-count:2.0000;text-autospace:ideograph-numeric;mso-pagination:none;text-align:justify;text-justify:inter-ideograph;line-height:30.0000pt;mso-line-height-rule:exactly;"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">政府机关中人际关系的处理很重要，在这样的环境中想要</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">升职，</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">需要注意很多方面，有一些</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">看似无关紧要，实</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">则</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">致命的</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">小毛病，是职场升职的</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">隐形杀手！</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="justify" style="margin-right:0.0000pt;margin-left:0.0000pt;mso-para-margin-right:0.0000gd;mso-para-margin-left:0.0000gd;text-indent:32.0000pt;mso-char-indent-count:2.0000;text-autospace:ideograph-numeric;mso-pagination:none;text-align:justify;text-justify:inter-ideograph;line-height:30.0000pt;mso-line-height-rule:exactly;"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">1.</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">天生的</font>“反对派”</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><font face="仿宋_GB2312">在活跃的工作氛围中，上司总希望有人对他提出的方案发表意见，即使不时出现反对意见也有气量照单全收。但是，如果在任何一次会议上，你激烈的反对意见都给大家澎湃的热情泼了一瓢冷水。那么，再民主的上司也会把你归为另类而打入冷宫，比如指派你到无声无息的次要岗位工作。所以，如果你是天生的</font>“反对派”，一定要设法加以改变，学会强迫自己保持沉默，不要贸然讲出你的悲观言论，否则只会败坏大家的情绪，使上司更加坚定了对你的排斥。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="justify" style="margin-right:0.0000pt;margin-left:0.0000pt;mso-para-margin-right:0.0000gd;mso-para-margin-left:0.0000gd;text-indent:32.0000pt;mso-char-indent-count:2.0000;text-autospace:ideograph-numeric;mso-pagination:none;text-align:justify;text-justify:inter-ideograph;line-height:30.0000pt;mso-line-height-rule:exactly;"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">2.</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">只工作不合作</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">你有一技之长，又肯埋头苦干，工作的质量和效率均出类拔萃。但是你的这些工作成效都是在单打独斗前提下，一旦与他人合作，你就显得闭塞、冷漠。你宁肯一头埋没于专业之中，而不愿与同事有密切交流。显然你的业绩遥遥领先，但是有一技之长却不能把你带到事业的顶峰，至多为你赢得一个技术权威的头衔，至于行政职务上的攀升，恐怕与你无缘。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="justify" style="margin-right:0.0000pt;margin-left:0.0000pt;mso-para-margin-right:0.0000gd;mso-para-margin-left:0.0000gd;text-indent:32.0000pt;mso-char-indent-count:2.0000;text-autospace:ideograph-numeric;mso-pagination:none;text-align:justify;text-justify:inter-ideograph;line-height:30.0000pt;mso-line-height-rule:exactly;"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">3.</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">过分推销自己</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">懂得证明自己价值的女性固然勇气可嘉，但是如果你推销自己的欲望时刻一触即发，那么取得的效果肯定适得其反。在与你相处一段时间以后，上司、同事很可能把自吹自擂认作是你的头号本领，反而忽视了你的其他长处。实质上，自吹狂总给人底气不足，用吹嘘来装声势的感觉。考查你时，大家多半把你的能力打个对折。而且，在任何场合都过分突出自己的人，必然忽略了他人的感受，往往给人不懂尊重他人的坏印象。这种品格，极难获得好口碑。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="justify" style="margin-right:0.0000pt;margin-left:0.0000pt;mso-para-margin-right:0.0000gd;mso-para-margin-left:0.0000gd;text-indent:32.0000pt;mso-char-indent-count:2.0000;text-autospace:ideograph-numeric;mso-pagination:none;text-align:justify;text-justify:inter-ideograph;line-height:30.0000pt;mso-line-height-rule:exactly;"><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">4.</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:楷体_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;">过分的剖析自己。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><font face="仿宋_GB2312">乐于在办公室里剖析自己你轻信了自己的直觉，自我感觉相当良好。对于自身存在的不足经常桂在嘴边，以此来表白你有足够的自知之明，敢于剖析自己。但是，这种</font>“看我有多糟”的姿态会使上司认定你是个“永远有待完善的人”，而一再地推迟了晋升你的计划。更可怕的是，总有一个上司对你这些顽冥不化的缺点深恶痛觉，于是把你全盘否定，扫地出门。</span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes';font-family:仿宋_GB2312;font-size:16.0000pt;mso-font-kerning:1.0000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p></p>
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